Wednesday, June 16, 2010

You've Been Envied ... Let's Celebrate !


Continue from the previous Friendship blog ... *Are you ready ?* Here we go ...
They say, 'What you see is what you get.' But in friendship, i say, 'What you see, is not what you normally get in the end.' Get it ?
Most of the sad incidents that we heard of in life, the friendship wreckage is caused by - ENVY. Well, it doesn't only happen on girl-girl friendship. It happens too in guy-guy friendship, or girl-guy friendship too. You may think that your bestest friend are the ones who will always watch your back, and they're so proud of you, all the time. But then again. You just think, but u never thought. Aha !! They're actually the one who's at the most potential position to STAB you at the back. And believe me, they aim very well. Can even go for Olympic ~ *No shit*
Try not to believe everything you see, and put everything right before your eyes and blinded yourself from the whole situation. The few who do are the envy of the many who only watch. There're 2 kinds of people – The Go-Getter, and the Sit-Fatter. 
In the younger days, the Go-Getter often wonders why the Sit-Fatter crave for their life so much.  And the Go-Getters spent some quality time thinking things through. But as they grew wiser, they know that the Sit-Fatter dont see what they see ... And it's makes the whole day beautiful again =) 
The Go-Getter works hard, gets everything working their way up by strong believe, disciplined mind, patience, dedications and lots of hard work. The Sit-Fatter however, are those who just sat there in front of the computer, clicking at other Go-Getter's page and curse them singing *in the London Bride Rhythm* 'When are you gonna fall down, faster fall down, damnit fall down'... All they do is hating this, hating that, hating everyone whom they think is better than them. Complaining this, complaining that. Gossip about this, and gossip about that. They just sit there, and still sitting … Doing nothing but kept cursing every better ones in the world.*A Sit-Fatter isn't always as Fat but is always there, sitting ... and waiting for their luck to come* Teehee.
The Go-getter are sadly to say, frequent target to be aimed in the 'you-faster-die-you board'. *Poor thing* =) It's ok. They're not your friends. You dont need them. =) Fair enough. But be careful Go-Getters, you're a sitting duck if you're too into your things and forgot to look left, and right, and left again. You might be run over by a truck by accident. Hospital charges are darn expensive now. So, buy your insurance today =) Teehee.
Dont worry. I believe that a lot of us are the Go-Getters but there's also alot of Sit-Fatters around us. It's like a food chain. We need each other to maintain that balance. Especially in business and social network. They're equally important. But then again, why let them bother us when we're already so occupied ?
Flash back on the past, put things to thoughts. Some of them are just waiting n watching the best spot at your back to strive to paralyze you. You have to agree that at times, friends around us are most vicious coz they know you more than any stranger does, some even know your secrets and schedule more than your own boyfriend/girlfriend or family members do.
And why do they do that ? Simple. Because they wanna have what you have, and they dont like to share it with you. So they have to just take it away from you before you totally over shadow them and they don't have the chance to take that short cut anymore. They want to dominate, they want to survive. Some friends are parasites. They have to live on you. Not that they cant live without you, but they just love to ride on you. Suck you ! =) But Hey, they dont like to see you having so much resistance and living so healthily. Some doesn't even like to see you having the same things they have. *What? Same things also cannot ?* No kidding. So, are you gonna give it up for them ? No ? Then kill them. Scrap the parasites away and leave your skin healthy and glowing ~ Wee !!
Friendship is as good as a relationship. Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something : They’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take. If you have given enough, more than enough of some may think, then stop giving.
When all harm is done. You may realize that your friends had took a lot of things from u without you knowing, torn you apart and break your heart and all. But all they can probably take is just a small tiny part of you, which can be mended back almost immediately. Think again. Humans are good in finding a way to live through crucial moments. And it’s just friendship. We haven’t go into topics about love n relationship yet. Ending a bad friendship is not like your life is gonna end anywhere soon. Leave them. And leave them fast.
It's hard to find someone who're not jealous of you especially girl-girl. Girls, they've said it. We'll always be girl =) And im proud to be one. We're so much fun, dont you think so ? They wanna bring us down, and we brought down the whole house for the surprise party ! We're so cool =)
Imagine the world without us girls. No envy. No gossips. No jealousy. No hatred. No love. No Facebook. No blogspot ...*omg* Can you imagine how the world would be without us ? *flying*
If you're envied today, give them a big smile =) Congratulations ~ You are a GIRL !!! Now, You go girl !!!
Love Always … Leng Yein

8 comments:

283 said...

林云姐~说真的,友情之间真的很容易出现这种“状况”..
以前我也是那种看身边的朋友好,我会有一种很不是滋味的感觉 @@
之后因为发生一些事情,我觉得何必呢..
一切看开,心真的会舒畅许多..
在那件事情之后,真正可以深交的朋友慢慢的浮上台面..这时候才发现~啊..原来一直都在我身边的人是他和她..而不是他们或她们..
友情这回事,我都抱着顺其自然的态度了..合则来,不合则散..没有人因为没有谁而活不下去,反正珍惜现在噜 :)
在我的观点中,真正的朋友是那种即使在他面前哭泣,我都不会觉得压抑..当我做错事的时候,会是那种把我臭骂一顿的人..
至于我开心的时候,他会用微笑以示他给我对大的鼓励...

283 said...

*至于我开心的时候,他会用微笑以示他给我最大的鼓励...(打错字~嘻嘻)

Anonymous said...

Wao....i am so pround of you! ur blog wrote everything about most of the ppl in the world...
I do have experience, is just like ur blog story....
Anyway, u made me more tough,..hehehehe!yup, u are rite! Gv our enemy a big smile....the smartest way!!!

Christine here^^
*I love ur blog, i browse through ur blog everyday.hahaha.(when iam free in the office lah)

Anonymous said...

You forgot Andrew Jackson’s Big Block of Cheese with nary a macaroni in sight.

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